Let's face it: the truth about eating alone, despite our best intentions, is that nine times out of ten we eat badly. We eat inadequate food; we eat it too fast; and we eat it slouched over a computer or sprawled in front of a television, with all the enlightened social skills of seagulls. ... Eating alone is not nature's way. Babies never eat alone. They can't. Children don't, unless they're in tragic circumstances. Old people eat alone regularly and it's dreadful. No wonder they lose their appetities. My theory (and I have several solo dinners behind me to back it up) is that to compose a happy character, and thus contribute to making the world a nice place to live in, you've either got to be fed (that is, by someone other than yourself who cares about you), which feels good and means that you're part of something larger than yourself; or, you've got to be the person feeding (that is, other people - not just dogs! - that you care about). That has the same positive effect.
~ Laura Calder 'The Lonely Palate' in Alone in the Kitchen with an Eggplant: Confessions of Cooking for One and Dining Alone
Posted by DSD at March 7, 2009 1:59 PM